Memory of My Friend, Amy 1971-2006

Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, totally worn out and screaming, "WOO HOO what a ride!"

That is how Amy lived. She was a wonderful person and wonderful friend. We became friends when our mothers would talk & talk & talk after a band event. As the only two kids there, we talked to each other and formed a lasting friendship. We hung out in school and outside of school. She introduced me to hockey (Go Flyers!) and the Great White North. We shared a strange obsession of The Monkees during the summer of 1986. She came to visit me in college and would get buzzed off 1/2 beer -- she tripped over a straw paper! We would laugh & laugh together. We shared a love of horses and I was envious of her trips to the big races. Amy could find the unusual and fun in many things ...such as mini-beers (top right pic). She and Mike were together forever before they finally got married last year. I was honored to be part of their wedding. I have over 20 years of memories stored up and as I type I smile & I cry.

When Amy found out she had cancer last year, she didn't lay down and feel sorry for herself. She fought it. She said she had too many things to do still. The past year of treatments was hard for her however she kept a positive attitude and did all she could do. Just knowing what she was going through and how she was tackling life reminded me to get over the small stuff and live life as much as possible.

Amy is one of my friends I grew apart from while married. I took every opportunity to reconnect each time I went home and I am glad I did. I saw her in October this year and neither of us had any idea her time was coming to a close. She is now watching down on all us making sure we remember her with a smile & a laugh. She wants us all screaming "WOO HOO what a ride!" when it's our turn.

In memory of Amy (1971-2006)